It can be very frustrating and annoying when a guy teases you over and over again. Worse yet, when your friends join the “game” to make fun of you. It feels so uncomfortable because you are in a place that you don’t know how to get out of. This article aims to help solve your problem: How do I get him to stop making fun of me?…

The first thing you need to do to get a guy to stop bothering you is to reflect on your own actions and behavior. Ask yourself how you react to a boy’s teasing: Do you …

• Laugh and pretend it’s funny?
• Keep quiet and not say a word?
• Get angry and yell at him?

The reason you need to be aware of your reactions is because your response to a guy’s teasing is really what’s causing him to keep joking with you.

But how can this be? Isn’t he being childish?

Females are trained from a young age to know that our actions, words and behaviors affect others. But men are very different from women. For example, did you know that ‘teasing’ is a key way that guys relate to each other? Try it yourself. Observe how the boys interact with each other. Look at what they say. Soon, you will discover that boys talk to boys very differently than girls talk to girls.

In fact, a big reason guys tease girls is because ‘teasing’ is a form of ‘masculine language’ …

Usually a guy can only speak “male language” (unless he has a lot of experience speaking and spending time with girls / women). So when a guy teases you, chances are he’s communicating with you in the ‘only’ way he knows how. What he does next depends on how you react to his teasing …

3 Tips On How To Get A Guy To Stop Bothering You …

1. Don’t pretend it’s fun when it’s not. Guys are NOT mind readers. If you laugh at his jokes, your demeanor tells him that his demeanor is funny, pleasant, and amusing to you. Since guys like to hear girls laugh, it’s only natural that he continues to make fun of you. Just to hear you laugh.

2. Do something different. If your usual reaction to being teased by a guy is to get angry and he still won’t stop, it’s time to CHANGE your reaction. Personally, I ignore rude comments and stare at the person speaking, or in another direction. Sometimes it is better to say nothing when there is nothing good to say.

3. Let him know that teasing hurts. Letting a guy know that teasing hurts is as simple as saying “Oh, that hurts.” A decent boy will stop bothering you. If he doesn’t stop, even after you’ve said it hurts, it’s time to move on and spend time with guys and girls who care enough to stop doing what hurts other people’s feelings.