Online dating is a new field for many women. It can be daunting as well as confusing, so here are some online dating tips women need to make navigating the “jungle” of online dating a little easier.

1. Make your profile great.

One of the keys to successful online dating is a well-written profile. When it comes to profile text, keep it short and unique. Men don’t want to read the usual “blah blah blah” of why you are fabulous, a list of your hobbies and how “you work hard and have fun.” Instead, use language that allows you to imagine, in your mind, the two of you doing the things you love to do together!

The specificity will make you stand out! For example, instead of saying, “I love going to jazz clubs and hiking in Runyon Canyon,” you could say, “If we’re a couple, the perfect weekend might include visiting the newest jazz club, staying up for just one a little late, sleeping guilt-free, long cuddling and then spending the afternoon on the hiking trail where we talk, laugh, and plan which movie to watch later. “

2. Post recent photos.

If you agree with who you are, someone else you know will also be fine with who you are. Keep your photos casual and recent. Be honest about who you are; Carrying both a head and body photo helps, and try not to include too many people in your photos.

3. Use good grammar!

Spelling mistakes, bad grammar, and too many acronyms don’t make the best first impression. Be literate and use complete sentences when writing messages to the people you are communicating with. Remember, your online profile is not a giant text message box. Spell out the words “you” instead of “u”. Avoid LOL and other text-based languages. Capitalize your sentences, use commas, and be complete in your thoughts.

Remember, you are making a first impression and you want men to easily discard it “inside”, rather than find a way to quickly discard it.

4. Determine what type of site is best for you.

There are general dating sites and also relationship services. You just have to decide which one is best for you. A widespread dating site would be something like match.com. If you are more interested in marriage or a more serious relationship, a site like eharmony.com might be a better option for you.

5. Avoid white lies.

Posting a photo that is over 9 months old or lying about your age are two common white lies when it comes to online dating. Always be honest about what you are posting. If you want to impact the site’s algorithm and attract men who are younger or older, just post a “warning” notice on the first line or two of your “About Me” section. For example, “Just a heads up! To make sure I don’t miss a big match due to age discrimination and algorithm-based matching, I want you to know that I was actually born in 1966.”

6. Communicate several times before going on a date, but not too many times!

Try to meet someone you are communicating with online within 10 days. The delay in emails and texts can make you feel close to someone you don’t even know yet. This also doesn’t mean that if a man you’re emailing hasn’t asked you out on a date, you should ask him out!

If he continually e-mails you without asking you out, you can politely let him know that you’d like to meet him. Let it take if from there. My favorite language goes something like this: “I’ve enjoyed meeting you online, but I know that for me and what I’m looking for, getting together is really important. And you?”

7. Save one-hour phone calls for after you’ve already had an appointment.

Just because you have an hour-long phone call with someone you’ve met online doesn’t mean there’s a guaranteed spark in person. Save this for when you’ve determined that this person might be a match for you!

8. It’s okay to initiate contact with a man online, and if he doesn’t respond …

Do nothing. Move on. Create the necessary space to allow someone else to ask you out. If someone writes to you and you are not interested, it is good to send them an email to let them know that you are flattered by their query, but that you simply do not think you are compatible. And then go to the other messages in your inbox …
9. Manage your expectations.

No one can describe themselves perfectly, and your date may not be exactly what you expected. But remember that you will either learn more about this person or you will split up, and either option is fine. The value of every online dating experience you have in general is a powerful step in finding love. Remember, not all “at bats” are a home run!

10. Have fun!

It’s easy to forget to enjoy dating, but it really is a time for you to find out what works and what doesn’t for you. Remember, you may need to meet a few Mr. Wrongs before you meet Mr. Right, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have a good time during the process.