In fact, I hear this question relatively regularly. Although most people would probably assume that a husband conceiving a baby with someone else spells the end of the marriage, this is not always the case. Sometimes the wife has children of her own with this man and does not want her children to lose their father in the place due to a bad decision. Other times, the husband is begging for forgiveness and vowing that the two of them can make it work if they just get help. Finally, some women have even told me that they feel compassion and some responsibility for the innocent child involved who now needs everyone to act in a healthy and responsible way.

Still, this is a very difficult situation. Getting over an affair and saving your marriage is hard enough. But having a constant reminder and reason for the partner to have to interact with the other woman on a regular basis makes things even more difficult. I have seen some cases where couples have been able to save their relationship and stay married in this situation. Many of them have similar characteristics and perform similar actions. I will discuss more about this matter in the next article.

It is often necessary to put the child first when a baby is the result of an affair: This seems to be a fairly straightforward concept. The innocent child cannot control the way he was conceived. It is not fair for him to feel the resentment and negative feelings surrounding this issue. However, it is easy to say all this, but it is very difficult to put it into practice. The baby can be a constant reminder of what happened, and the wife will often feel very guilty about feelings of resentment that she can’t seem to avoid.

However, I have seen couples who have been able to get help dealing with this and who have been able to turn the situation into a positive outcome. I have even seen couples who end up raising the child as their own. However, most people need outside help in order to continually do this in a healthy way.

I have also seen couples struggle a lot with this problem while trying to come up with a scenario that works best for everyone and is bearable for everyone. The wife will often want very much to do the right thing, but there is a lot of resentment because she usually suspects that the other woman got pregnant on purpose or is using the baby to stay in the picture. There is also usually some resentment about the financial responsibilities that the family will now have to face. And the wife will often greatly resent the husband’s involvement in this and how his decisions have put them in this situation.

Saving the marriage after a baby is conceived during the affair almost always involves including the wife in the healthiest way possible: It is not uncommon for wives to tell me that they very much want to keep their husband’s baby with the other woman separated from her family. I often hear things like “I know this is his son and he should be responsible for it. But he will have to do it alone. This baby is not mine and I don’t want this to affect my family.” . He can do whatever he has to do, but he will have to keep him separate from us. “This is understandable. It is often very painful for the wife to have to interact with the child and the other woman.

However, I have to tell you that very rarely do I see this work successfully. Usually the wife will have serious trust issues every time the husband spends time with the child. He will wonder what is happening between the husband and the other woman every time she is not there to see what is happening. Usually the husband will also struggle with conflicting guilt feelings. It is natural for him to want to love the child and be a part of his life. But, he will often struggle a lot with the guilt this invokes and very often gets caught in the middle between wanting to do the right thing for his son and wanting to spare his wife and family the pain that goes along with it.

That is why it is often necessary to involve the wife in a way that everyone can live with. Yes, the lover or another woman may not like this. But she will also have to make concessions. She is in this situation because of the actions she chose to take. The situation will not be perfect for any of the people involved. But for this to work in a healthy way, everyone will have to work hard to make it work.

The couple will often have to be very clear about each other’s roles. It also helps to make it clear to the other woman that the husband’s relationship with her is limited to the child’s needs and that the couple will remain married and committed to each other. It is important for you to understand that although the husband (and his family) will be there for the child, this commitment to the new child will not affect his commitment to his wife and family. Often times, once the other woman fully understands and accepts this, she will begin to realize that it is a waste of time to try to take advantage of the situation and should now be concerned about the well-being of her own child.

In short, the marriage can sometimes be saved when the husband’s affair produces a child with the other woman. But, there are often many problems to solve as well, and everyone will have to make a very conscious effort to put the child and their needs first and try to interact in the healthiest way possible.