If you are a man and have just gone through a very serious breakup with your girlfriend, I suggest you read this article. No, this is not one of those corny writings on methods to win back a girlfriend; I will delve into understanding the human psyche so that you can get a general idea of ​​what happens psychologically every time a breakup occurs in a relationship.

Since I was a teenager I discovered that all women, regardless of their age, figure, worldview or social status, act the same way once they are hurt: they block the source of that pain. So don’t be surprised when women completely ignore you after they’ve broken up with you. That’s just his way of making sure you can’t hurt him anymore.

Now that she has grown numb to your every word and will dismiss your every action, is there any point in trying to reconnect with her? Of course not, you have broken her trust and spoiled her love for you. Trust me, your words mean nothing to her right now. So no matter how much you beg for her back, no matter what moves you make just to impress her, there is no way you can ever have her back in your life. Not yet.

Most men don’t realize that the best course of action after a breakup is INACTION. What does that mean? It basically means that you will stop trying to do anything that impairs their judgment. Therefore, no desperate pleas or asking for forgiveness, not in the meantime. You should give your girlfriend time and space to contemplate the breakup. You should leave her alone and ignore her.

Isn’t that a great plan? It’s not much effort on your part, and yet it’s effective. The principle behind completely ignoring your ex girlfriend is this: a successful relationship is never forced. You didn’t force her to be your girlfriend, did you? In the same way, she can’t just barge in, apologize, and expect them to accept it in return. Also, a breakup takes time to heal, and if you fight the healing process, you’re just dragging the relationship further and further toward the end.

Many experts say that the average time to ensure effective technical inaction is roughly two weeks. At that point, your ex girlfriend will be wondering what you’ve been up to, why you haven’t tried to call, and why you just completely dropped off the radar. We agree with the two-week rule because we’ve seen it work in countless relationships.

Here are some of the things you MUST NOT do if you decide to ignore her for two weeks:

1) Text him first

2) Send you messages online (Facebook, email, etc.)

3) Being in the same room for more than five minutes

4) Actively look for her in a crowd

5) call her

The great thing about this strategy is that it works regardless of your relationship situation. Even if you’ve already broken up with her for months, this will still work. Just block her out of her life the same way she blocks you out. Look, women love the chase and if the man stops chasing you, he will definitely get worried and chase you again.